If you’re new to the masturbation world, you might be wondering how to have sex with yourself The good news is, there is no “wrong” or “right” way The basics boil down to this Masturbation is about giving yourself permission to feel pleasure on your own terms, simply for yourself. Sex with a partner and masturbation are totally different things, and pleasuring yourself doesn’t mean your partner is lacking or doing something wrong Masturbating is actually a great way to learn what feels good to you (and what doesn’t) so you can tell your partner about your preferences.
The way you have sex with yourself can reflect how you engage with pleasure with other people Fill your mind with material to help you start to evaluate things like orientation and gender identity, the quality of your relationships, and your own wants and needs when it comes to sex and sexual partnership Do yourself a favor, though, and be selective with that media. Sex with yourself involves you pleasuring your mind and body Having sex with yourself allows you to focus more on your own body and feelings without being caught up in someone else’s sexual agenda. [21] anal masturbation only works well if you have short nails
